As spouses, we spend so much time trying to win. Why is winning so important, even at the expense of hurting and disrespecting our partner? The bottom-line is that we have missed what is really important. It is great to sit down and count the score - see who has won more "battles." Is it really? Winning most battles gives a temporary sense of satisfaction and maybe ego-rush. But in the final analysis of life with our spouse, this means nothing.
Here is my humble suggestion. Instead of one spouse wanting to win all battles, why don't both endeavor to score a big victory for the union? What really matters is not the number of points we accumulate from spousal battles, but rather how much respect and love each spouse feels at the end of each argument.
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